Friday, January 16, 2009

Transitions....

bye, bye Kim...

This morning at 4:40AM, I walked with Kim to the train station as she began her 20 hour journey heading to the US. While she is happily stopping in Boston to visit Siegy, the impetus for the journey is to go to Seattle to say good bye to a dear friend who has only days or (maybe) weeks to live. It's been a very odd experience being here in Italy transitioning into "La Vita Dolce" while life in Seattle for our friends has been a scary transition toward death and widowhood. Needless to say, Kim and I have had many conversations about timing, guilt, seizing the moment and the preciousness of life. To anyone who may be reading this, take your moment whenever you can, no matter how small; they all add up.

As I walked home through the dark, quiet little streets, I focused on each step and felt happy that I feel so comfortable in this Piedmonte town. Very few people were out and the ones who were, were men heading to what I believe are morning prayers. I don't think that we've ever mentioned that right across the cobble stone street where we live there is "The Islamic Cultural Center of Alessandria". One day I almost took a picture of their entrance and sign but thought better of it in that I didn't want them to think I was some type of spy or agent.
Given that it's a cultural center, there tends to be lots of activities, music, meetings, etc. The street often overflows with their parked cars and it's not uncommon to hear sounds, voices, music radiating from the center.

It's been very interesting to live by this center because every day there are many people going in and out often dressed in their cultural identity outfits. I do not say this negatively; just look at some of the pictures Kim and I have posted of our outer wear vs the Italian's sense of style. I just point it out because it's a big, noticeable contrast. The women do not wear burkas but do tend to have long dresses and their heads covered; some men wear very long beards. A few doors down there is a clothing, accoutrement store that I've never been in. I often stop and look in the windows at the long dresses, head scarves, caftans, etc. that are for sale.
Walking past the cultural center as well as the old cathedrals reminds me on a daily basis what a diverse world we reside in and the amazing challenges we face as the dichotomy chasms between religions present themselves. Every day I try to not blame myself for being confused about all of this battling over religious dominance and certitude. Who is right? HA! You tell me and there will be someone behind you just waiting to disagree; all quite maddening...

Alas, I have digressed, and so:

Continuing with my walk home, I pondered what I will be doing with myself over the next few days before I go to Vienna. My default reaction is to keep the shutters closed and hide out; part of my shyer nature. Rita somehow must have sensed this because last night she dropped by to say "buon viaggi" to Kim and let me know that today at an hour yet to be determined, we'll be cooking something that includes the oven exhaust fan. I say this because as she was gesticulating what she will be making (a dessert?) she kept going over to our little oven and pointing at the fan. After she left I asked Kim, "What am I doing tomorrow?" and she just smiled and replied, "I don't know".

I have straightened up the apartment the way Kim likes it and I went to the gym for an aqua fitness class. I walked to the post office and purchased a stamp for a letter to the US. This currently is my life in Italy these days and all and all I think it's been a good day. While neither Kim nor I imagined these scenarios of our each returning to America for visits, that's what has transpired "while busy making other plans".

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Getting Ready.....

Note the icicle hanging from his cap; it's COLD today, about 22F

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This morning Kim and I had errands to run which included a trip to the train station. It's cold and icy out and there still is a lot of snow in the parks. The pictures above show a park across from the train station here in Alessandria.

Kim leaves to the US on Friday and given her departure hour, we decided to buy the ticket now. Her train will head out toward Milan at 5AM. From there to the airport and a plane ride to Boston where she'll visit with Siegy for just short of a week. After Boston she heads to Seattle to spend a week with a friend who is quite ill....

I'll be staying alone in Alessandria for five days and then will make my own journey to Milan to catch a plane for Vienna where I'll visit with Jean and Shadow. Toward the end of the month, Jean and I will fly to Amsterdam where we'll meet up with Kim for a four day visit. After Amsterdam, Kim and I will head back to Italy and Jean to Vienna.

We're starting to gear up for more traveling; the winter doldrums seem to be past us and we're more aware of the clock ticking.... Our friends Lynn and Susan will be moving to Germany next week and Kim and I are hoping to to visit with them following a visit to Venice for Carnivale. Whew! Stay tuned.

Monday, January 12, 2009

I've Been Set Free......

SKIPPIDY DOO DAH, SKIPPIDY DAY.....

I'M OFF TO THE GYM TODAY!
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After almost two full weeks I am much better and got to head back to the gym today. When I went outside, I saw that we are still in Italy!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Ice and Cold, Cold and Ice

As you can probably tell, our Chief Blogger has been down for the count or preoccupied or reading or (occasionally) cooking for me, so she has been off her stride of a blog per day. Now I could have picked up the slack but that would require commitment (from me) and expectation (from you) and frankly, who needs that kind of responsibility??

We have been hibernating in this cold and "the most snow in 30 years" city we now call home. I venture out to the gym and the grocery store these days but that's about it. You skiers would think we are nuts- so close to the Italian Alps and here we are sitting on our butts (but then again we do the same thing in Seattle while many of you are off frolicking in the mountains- but jeesh the Alps??!) Our neighbors, Stefania and Alessandro often go off with their ski club on the weekends and 7 year old Chiara would put me to shame on a slope. But as I say in Seattle, and now here, wow aren't those mountains in the distance just beautiful?


Wikipedia says: Monte Rosa, also called Dufourspitze (in German, lit. Dufour Peak), is a mountain in the Pennine Alps. With its 4,634 m (15,203 ft) summit, it is the second highest mountain in the Alps and western Europe[1] and the highest of Switzerland. Its 2,470 m (8,104 ft) eastern wall is also the tallest in the Alps[2] and its western side is covered by the Gorner Glacier, the second largest in the Alps. The peak is located in the canton of Valais in the municipality of Zermatt. It is the summit of the Monte Rosa Massif, a range lying on the border between Italy and Switzerland and composed of several summits over 4500 metres.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

More Snow!

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For the last two days we've awoken to snow. As I write this, just around noon, the snow continues to fall. Kim is off shopping (as in the grocery store!) and I continue to try to get well. My goal today is to make chicken soup and not be grumpy!

We're pretty low key here; lots of reading and web surfing.

Oh, and games scores are the following:

Cribbage: Rachel 110 Kim 69

Hollywood: Rachel 152 Kim 217

And finally, you may recall that we have posted the blog site for Dom and Louise whom we visited in Lucca. You'll want to check out her recent and future postings as she is giving us some Tuscan recipes. You can access it by scrolling down to the bottom of our blog and clicking the link OR, just go to: Abbastanza Buono - Living in Italy: Happy New Year! Buon Appetito!

Monday, January 5, 2009

It's The Epiphany AND a National Holiday...



Another holiday; everything's closed. Rachel is in such a pissy mood that you'd never know it was supposed to be a day of celebration... well at least for Catholics in Italy. But given that she has been sick with a horrible head cold, relapsed, gotten better, gotten worse and now is ready to either kill me or herself, this apparently is NO time to celebrate or even be a little bit happy. Given this is on the heels of my extended irritability for the same reasons, let's just say too much time together is reaping its inevitable problems (snarl, snarl). But tomorrow should be a better day and it will come none too soon.

Meet La Befana!

It's holiday time again! Tonight is the Eve of the Epiphany, a very special night for Italian children....



"La Befana is one of Italy's oldest and most celebrated legends. Each year on January 6 the children of Italy awaken in hopes that La Befana has made a visit to their house. This is a significant day to Italians because it marks the end of the Christmas season and the day that the three Wise Men arrived at the manger of the Christ child. Over the years the Epiphany has been a more celebrated holiday for the children of Italy than even Christmas.

As legend has it the three Wise Men were in search of the Christ child when they decided to stop at a small house to ask for directions. Upon knocking, an old woman holding a broom opened the door slightly to see who was there. Standing at her doorstep were three colorfully dressed men who were in need of directions to find the Christ child. The old woman was unaware of who these three men were looking for and could not point them in the right direction. Prior to the three men leaving they kindly asked the old woman to join them on their journey. She declined because she had much housework to do. After they left she felt as though she had made a mistake and decided to go and catch up with the kind men. After many hours of searching she could not find them. Thinking of the opportunity she had missed the old woman stopped every child to give them a small treat in hopes that one was the Christ child. Each year on the eve of the Epiphany she sets out looking for the baby Jesus. She stops at each child's house to leave those who were good treats in their stockings and those who were bad a lump of coal.

Make sure to keep those stockings hung by the chimney in hopes that La Befana will soon be there.
Buona Festa!"

The above citation is by: Anthony Parenta at his blog site:
http://www.italiansrus.com/articles/befana.htm